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Patrick and Julie Stowe always wanted to be youth mentors so shortly after they got married, they signed up together at Big Brothers Big Sisters. It's been nearly four years since Julie and Patrick were matched with Chase Valentine, then 6, and what began as a Big Brothers Big Sisters match is now more like family.
"At first, Chase was so young and shy that he called Julie and me 'big brother' and 'big sister' because he couldn't even remember our names," said Patrick Stowe. Now Chase and Julie and Patrick have what Patrick calls a very "trusting, open and fun relationship," and they get together almost every weekend - sometimes more if Chase has a game.
The mission of Big Brothers Big Sisters (BBBS) is to assist young people in reaching their full potential by matching them with a caring adult volunteer. That "caring adult volunteer" can help in one of two different capacities. Community-based volunteers, like Patrick and Julie, make a one-year commitment to regularly spend time with a child. Site volunteers, go to one of the 11 schools in the region that partner with BBBS to spend an hour or so a week reading, working on a project, playing games or just eating lunch and talking with a child.
"It's a serious commitment to be a Big Brother or a Big Sister," said Sandy Milliken, executive director of Big Brothers Big Sisters. "But it's a commitment to a child who very much needs the support for that period of time"
"Though our children come from all walks of life, the similarity most of them share is being in a single parent home, and Continue . . . |